Two weeks ago, I put up a post regarding the merits of renting vs. home ownership and how things appear to be changing for young adults compared to previous generations.
It generated a great deal of mail and phone calls. I suspected some anger from people saying that home ownership was the only way to go. Not really. A few people stated that it was the only way for most people to accumulate any meaningful capital which is what I heard over 40 years ago.
Today, people are marrying later or not at all. The Cape Cod house with the white picket fence around the yard has little appeal to these young adults. Also, the supply of affordable housing does not meet demand so, as prices rise, more young people are excluded from the possibility of home ownership.
One reader who is wildly successful wrote to tell me that he doubted if he would ever buy a house unless it was a vacation home. He wrote: “I agree completely that if you take your down payment money and invest it you will be better off than buying a home in many cases. To succeed at this, you need to be very DISCIPLINED (caps his). Each year, I max out on my 401k but also take property tax and maintenance money that I would have to spend as a homeowner and invest it. Also, I have flexibility. If I change jobs or want to move, it can be done easily. I am 33 and may marry someday. If we have kids, I will probably buy a house. Otherwise, I will be a forever renter.
Today, RentCafe estimates that the average rent in the US is $1,700 per month. Of course, an average is often a misleading statistic. In San Francisco, it could be several times that for a fairly modest apartment. In a rural or downtrodden, rent is often under $1,000 for a decent place. Two weeks ago, The New York Times did a spin on the RentCafe data, and showed how much square footage you would get in several markets for $1,700 per month.
Results were interesting. In a select sample of Manhattan zip codes, $1700 gave somewhere between 211-234 square feet. In Memphis, you were able to rent 1850-2000. Oklahoma City and Tulsa were quite renter friendly with the average national renter tariff getting you 1870 to 1970 square feet. As markets, the two Oklahoma entries were the most reasonably priced.
It seems for many young people that even renting can be a stretch these days. Rents have moved sharply upward as real estate prices have jumped in the last few years, so it is causing some real problems for people under 30. As rents have escalated, some can handle it but are not able to save for a down payment on a home which pushes back their initial purchase by several years. Others cannot handle the rent, period.
Here is one example, perhaps not typical, that I learned after the last post about buying vs. renting. A young man who lives in a small town in Pennsylvania wrote to me and told me of his current struggles. He allowed me to use his comments after we jointly edited what he said and changed a few personal details. Here goes: “I am 26 years old and do not think that I will ever own a house. Three years ago, I graduated from a state college and picked up a job locally. I had $37,000 in student debt. Over the last two years, I have interviewed at businesses in big cities—New York, Philadelphia, Boston and Washington, DC. Before each interview, I visited college acquaintances and checked on living costs (especially apartments). Landlords wanted a few months’ rent in advance or a very large security deposit. One place offered me a job but would not pay moving expenses. Friends said ask your parents for the rental advance and moving expenses. They simply do not have it. I do not pay them rent but do pay for some of the food and the utilities. Now that I am paying back the loans again (after the Covid hiatus), I have little money left. My job is not bad, but it is dead end as is the town where I am now living.”
He also struck me with one comment re the student loans. Friends told him not to worry as the loans will all soon be forgiven. His response was as follows: “You did not know what politicians will do. Also, I signed the damned loan paperwork and understood the terms. I need to be responsible.”
Is my young friend an extreme example. Perhaps a bit. Yet, I remember being told 30 years ago by an ad agency CEO after I gave a presentation at a conference that he wound up only hiring upper middle-class kids. Their parents could subsidize them for a few years by picking up rents or part of them until their son or daughter was no longer earning an entry level salary in New York.
So, until the real estate market cools off, many will not participate in “The American Dream” of home ownership. Others will be excluded, and some will choose a different lifestyle.
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